Tuesday, July 31, 2007

Coming Out Issues for Spouses & Significant Others

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Trans Partner Advocacy



Posted in trans partners on July 30th, 2007

Recently on our message boards, the partner of someone who was transitioning posted about her very last day with her male husband. She was sad, she was mourning, and she was feeling both loss & resentment.

Sometimes the larger trans community seems to view feelings like that as anti-trans; that a partner isn’t throwing the big coming out party for her transitioning companion is seen as less than enthusiastic, and the difficult feelings are interpreted as saying ‘trans is bad.’

But the thing is, it’s part of the gig. There’s a lot of change involved in transition, which every trans person with half a brain admits. I mean, that’s the point. Change is a difficult thing for most people - all people, really - and it is stressful even when the change is a good thing, like getting a better job or getting married or having a baby that you’ve long wanted.

But to miss the old, worse job, or thinking fondly about the time when you were single or childfree, doesn’t mean you don’t want the new change in your life. You do. But you can’t just tell your mind not to think about how it once was, either.

& Sometimes I think that’s what’s expected of partners, that we never have a time to say, “I did love him as a man.” We can’t admit that we liked the cocky or shy guy we first fell in love with, & the partners of FTMs aren’t supposed to mourn the loss of breasts and smooth cheeks that they loved to touch.

But the thing is, as any trans person should know, repressing a feeling of loss or sadness is really bad all around; repression poisons the groundwater, in effect, and everyone feels it. So while I don’t advise partners make themselves miserable longing for the past (just as I wouldn’t advise trans people to think the future will definitely be rosy simply because they’ll transition), expressing the more difficult feelings associated with transition is healthier, in my opinion, in the long run. Not easy to hear as the trans person, for sure, but from what I hear from same trans people, they too may need some time to mourn the loss of their own former self.

What book publisher says

GROWING up in a traditional Chinese middle-class family meant that Ms Leona Lo had to suppress her gender identity conflict throughout her adolescent years.

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From Leonard To Leona: A working cover of the book. The final version is being decided upon.

One of the reasons Select Publishing decided to publish MsLo's book is to foster better understanding of such issues.

Said its managing director, Ms Lee Wen Fen: 'Select Publishing, a subsidiary of Select Books, publishes a wide range of books on Asia, ranging from literature to works on Asian history, society, politics and culture.'

It includes within its publishing portfolio each year a few works on niche subjects that are under-represented on book shelves or in public discourse, such as books on migrant worker issues or civil society.

'When the subject of transsexualism is publicly discussed at all, usually it is treated with derision or, at best, as a subject of ribald humour,' said Ms Lee.

This book contributes to the raising of gender awareness, she said.

Co-worker's sex change is upsetting

LYNNE CURRY
MANAGEMENT


(Published: July 30, 2007)

Q. I work for a large federal organization, and for three years I've worked with a man who's a bit of an odd duck. "Frank" is moody and indecisive. When you talk with him, he often doesn't finish a thought or even a sentence, and so when you and he discuss something, you're left hanging. He also has a strange appearance for a man, with obviously manicured fingernails and plucked eyebrows.

Two months ago, the situation changed from odd to surreal. We were told Frank was undergoing surgery to change into a woman. We all left the meeting shaking our heads. I consider this sort of behavior immoral, and I decided I would interact with Frank only when I absolutely had to.

Two weeks ago, Frank returned from surgery. Management informed us by e-mail we were to call him "Frances." Last week, things got worse. Frances and I got assigned to the same business process improvement committee, and so I have to work with him daily. Yesterday, I was en route to the restroom when I noticed Frank behind me in the hallway. I stopped just short of the restroom door and then he went in. This makes me nauseous.

I went to see my manager, who sent me to HR, who told me that Frances can use the women's restroom as he's now a she and has the right. What happened to my rights?

A. You have rights -- but not the right to tell Frances what sex she is or what restroom she uses.

In the last two decades, about 200,000 individuals have elected surgery to change from male to female or female to male. Nine states, among them Washington, Illinois, Minnesota, Hawaii, New Mexico, Maine and California, ban gender-identity discrimination.

Although no Alaska law addresses this issue, the U.S. Supreme Court set a partial precedent in its landmark 1989 Price Waterhouse v. Hopkins decision. When the accounting firm denied Ann Hopkins the right to become a partner because she dressed and acted in a masculine manner, the Supreme Court ruled in Hopkins' favor and against sexual stereotyping.

Since then, multiple employers such as American Airlines, IBM, Xerox, Walgreens, Nike, Apple, Kodak and Aetna have created specific policies so that transsexuals -- those who choose sexual identities different from the one in which they were born and raised -- can work without facing discrimination from co-workers.

Meanwhile, your employer can support you as well as Frances. No-cost arrangements, such as asking Frances to use a single stall bathroom with a locked door or inexpensive modifications such as ensuring that restroom stalls provide adequate privacy can go a long way in making this situation more palatable.

Although many share with you the strongly held belief that changing one's sexual identity is a moral issue, three thoughts may help you come to terms with the fact that you work with Frances.

First, those who feel at home in their own skin ordinarily perform better than those who always feel not quite right. Some of Frances' former odd behaviors may fall away now that she has the chance to present herself to the world in the sexual identity that she feels is hers.

Second, although you feel put out by Frances' transformation, can you imagine what it must have been like for her to have felt in the wrong body and sexual identity since birth? No one elects the painful and rigorous surgery needed to change sexual identity without having experienced severe anguish over the situation.

Finally, as you employer apparently feels, Frances and Frank possess the same skills. In the workplace, that's what matters.

Female impersonator is a Rehoboth 'Eyecon'


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Female impersonator Christopher Peterson performs at the Atlantic Sands Hotel & Conference Center on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach every Friday, Saturday and Sunday through Labor Day.

Television viewers may enjoy watching ABC's new celebrity impersonators show, "The Next Big Thing," but Rehoboth Beach has hosted a master of the craft for close to a decade now.

Christopher Peterson takes the stage of the ballroom at the Atlantic Sands Hotel & Conference Center on the boardwalk every Friday though Sunday. For approximately 70 minutes per evening, he portrays the likes of Liza Minelli, Bette Davis and Cher. Instead of taking breaks or intermissions, he changes wigs between songs right in front of the audience.

This is his third, and possibly final, season at the hotel. It booked him in 2005 after his former venue, the gay nightclub the Renegade, was torn down by developers. That club's owners had discovered him in Key West, Fla., where he still performs each winter with the help of his stage manager (and partner of 23 years), James Mill. Peterson's career got a national boost in 2001 when he landed a scene-stealing cameo opposite Cuba Gooding Jr. in the comedy movie "Rat Race."

Peterson, 44, is in fine form. A recent show found him kicking off the evening with a Cher impersonation. And yes, folks, those are his real, uh, vocals. He kept the crowd in stitches between songs with jokes about national topics and also local references geared to the coastal Sussex Countians in the house. While the crowd at that particular show was predominantly gay, more and more straight people have been attending the show to see what all the fuss is about.

We caught up with him Monday for a chat.

Q: Is this really "farewell"?

A: We only signed up for three seasons (at the hotel). Neither side has decided yet whether we'll continue or not. I'd certainly like to continue to perform in Rehoboth. This is my home in the summertime. The ballroom at the Sands is great because it almost has a Vegas feel to it.

Q: Your Bette Davis and Liza Minelli impressions stole the show when I saw you.

A: I always save the best for last. And I opened with Cher because that wig takes a lot longer to put on than the others. It's a fun opening.

Q: You also have two other shows which are completely different?

A: Yes. I have one where Marilyn Monroe opens the show wearing the "Happy Birthday, JFK" gown. That gown sold for $1.3 million at Christie's; mine cost about 1-one-hundredth of that.

Q: What was it like working with Cuba Gooding Jr. in "Rat Race"?

A: He was a total professional and a very nice man. He was very funny between takes. I was paid a flat sum for that movie and had to sign away my rights for six years, but now the contract is up so I just received my first residual check.

Q: Have the crowds changed over the years?

A: I'm 44 and they're getting older along with me. But there is a lot of nostalgia going on these days. Even the rock bands who come to Dewey are old bands from the '70s and '80s. And look at the biggest band in the world (the Rolling Stones). They're fossils! I always say my audience consists of gay men and women and their mothers. But we're getting a lot of straight people who come to enjoy a good cabaret show.

Q: Will you ever retire for real?

A: The promoters say I'll be able to do this into my sixties because some of the people I'm portraying are that old anyway. Every performer wishes they could take their final accolades and then the curtain closes and you drop dead. It doesn't always happen that way, unfortunately. But that's what I want.

Transgender inmate wins hormone therapy

By REBECCA BOONE

Associated Press Writer

An inmate who castrated herself with a disposable razor blade after prison officials refused to treat her for gender identity disorder should have female hormone therapy paid for by the state, a federal judge said.

Jenniffer Spencer, who was born biologically male, sued the Idaho Department of Correction and its physicians, claiming that her constitutional rights were violated and that she was subjected to cruel and unusual punishment when the doctors failed to diagnose gender identity disorder and treat her with female hormones. Instead, the department and its doctors repeatedly offered Spencer the male hormone testosterone.

A trial over the lawsuit has not been scheduled, but U.S. District Judge Mikel Williams ruled Friday that the state must provide Spencer with psychotherapy and estrogen pending trial. Williams also noted that Spencer is scheduled for release in two years, and that getting the lawsuit to trial could take that long or longer.

The state's attorneys contend that prison doctors did not find conclusive evidence that Spencer, 27, has gender identity disorder. It would be unethical for the doctors to prescribe a drug that wasn't needed and that could do harm, attorney John Burke said.

The judge disagreed.

"There is no evidence before the court that female hormones have, in fact, proved harmful to male subjects who are no longer producing testosterone," Williams said.

Other transgender inmates are already receiving female hormone therapy, the judge said, and so the state is able to handle any special concerns that might arise if Spencer were given estrogen. . . .

Monday, July 30, 2007

That was then this is now

Alice’s Alias

Published: August 20, 2006

Even in a science fiction writer’s most inaccurate predictions, there are sometimes valuable truths to be gleaned. In an introduction to “Warm Worlds and Otherwise,” a 1975 collection of short stories by the elusive and enigmatic James Tiptree Jr., his editor and fellow author Robert Silverberg attempted to sketch a portrait of a cult figure who had never been seen in public, and whose only tangible connection to the known universe was a steady stream of letters originating from a post office box in McLean, Va. Though some fans believed that the mysterious Tiptree was actually J.D. Salinger or Henry Kissinger, Silverberg speculated that the writer was probably employed as a federal bureaucrat, around 50 or 55 years old, and enjoyed the outdoors. Furthermore, Silverberg wrote: “It has been suggested that Tiptree is female, a theory that I find absurd, for there is to me something ineluctably masculine about Tiptree’s writing. I don’t think the novels of Jane Austen could have been written by a man nor the stories of Ernest Hemingway by a woman, and in the same way I believe the author of the James Tiptree stories is male.” . . .

The New York Times: Paperback Row

Published: July 29, 2007

JAMES TIPTREE, JR.: The Double Life of Alice B. Sheldon, by Julie Phillips. (Picador, $18. ) By the early 1970s, James Tiptree Jr. was one of the brightest-burning talents in science fiction, conjuring interplanetary gender-bending fantasies that rev olutionized the genre. But in 1976, Tiptree was revealed to be Alice Sheldon, an enigmatic woman who had also been, in her colorful career, a psychologist, a C.I.A. counterintelligence analyst and a chicken farmer. This fascinating portrait by Phillips (inset) traces the life and work of a woman who found in her invented persona a partial resolution to the conflicts that plagued her throughout her life. (Sheldon committed suicide in 1987.) In the Book Review, Dave Itzkoff called this biography “engrossing and endlessly revelatory.”



Mary Hastings Bradley Papers, University of Illinois, Chicago

Alice Sheldon


Scottsdale official to fight 'transgender' bar ban

Jul 30, 2007 9:22 AM

A bar fight is brewing between one Scottsdale establishment and the chairwoman of the city's Human Relations Commission.

At issue, a ban on transgendered people at Anderson's Fifth Estate nightclub.

Michele deLaFreniere believes its wrong to treat gay and transgendered people differently in the City of Scottsdale. DeLaFreniere, 52, has lived as a woman since 2004.

DeLaFreniere filed a discrimination complaint with the Arizona Attorney General's Office against the Old Town Scottsdale night spot.

Owner Tom Anderson acknowledges banning transgendered people from the club, but he said it was the best solution he could come up after female customers objected to having "men in dresses" using the women's restroom.

Anderson said he couldn't have them using the men's restroom, because men harassed them and took their pictures.

Since he's liable for his customer's safety, Anderson said he had no choice but to ban transgendered people from the bar. "There was no place I could put these people," Anderson said.

While deLaFreniere charged Anderson with bigotry, Anderson said that deLaFreniere threatened to use her position with the city against him, an accusation she denies.

DeLaFreniere said Anderson rudely refused her and one of her friends entry into the club a couple of days after Thanksgiving. "He grabbed the money from my hand and said, 'I don't want your business or your kind here," she said. "That, to me, is discrimination."

Anderson said he never told deLaFreniere that "her kind" were not welcome in his club. "That's a dramatization she wants to make to further her cause. I don't use that kind of language," he said. "I don't have a problem with (the transgendered). If that's the way your life is going, so be it. It doesn't bother me in the slightest."

Anderson said his customers "felt totally threatened. I believe I made the right move to protect the women that frequent this club." He said.

Singapore: ACCEPTING ME AS PERSON= OPENING UNACCEPTABLE GATE?

Singaporean transsexual mulls over tough question

by Ng Wan Ching

July 30, 2007

FOR years, Ms Leono Lo knew it was not going to be easy. Asking to be accepted on a personal and human level is in sync with Singapore's vision of an all-inclusive society. But somehow things are different for a sex-change individual.

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Once she was Leonard, now she's Leona: Leonard (above) in a 1990 picture taken with the late MrDavid Marshall, lawyer, politician and Singapore's one-time ambassador to France. Now, as Leona (below), she is a happy and confident woman.

The gay debate might have had some airing but what about the Third Gender? Transsexuals cause discomfort because they challenge conventional notions of male and female bodies.

Part man and part woman.

Fear of the unfamiliar spawns fear of such fringe groups and their lifestyles multiplying. Will it destabilise the traditional structure of family here?

Ms Leono Lo is aware of social prejudices and has no antidote to offer.

So she's doing the only thing she can think of - opening up and telling her story so others might see her as a human being.

Ms Lo had known something was different about her since she was 12years old and went by the name Leonard.

She knew she was not a homosexual.

But what was she then?

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At 15, she chanced upon a book at the Jurong East Community Library called Cries From Within, co-written by the late Professor SSRatnam who performed Asia's first sexual re-assignment surgery here in 1971.

Said Ms Lo, 32: 'Every word in that book made sense to me. Finally, I had the words to describe how I felt. I read it from start to finish in one sitting.'

Today, she has not only written a book chronicling the stories of 13 transsexuals, My Sisters, Their Stories, but also her autobiography.

HER JOURNEY

The book, From Leonard To Leona, details incidents which marked her journey from manhood to womanhood.

It is published by Select Books and will be out in the first week of September.

She started giving talks this year to help others understand.

'I do this so others may feel that they can live openly too,' MsLo said in an interview with The New Paper on Sunday.

She strikes you as just another woman, from the top of her coiffed head to her slinky outfits, attitude, outlook and slingback heels.

Her life took a turn at 21, while at university in the UK. She threw all caution to the wind and flew to Bangkok alone for the gender-changing operation which turned her physically into the woman she knew she had always been inside.

Her parents had no idea that she was going to have the operation. . . .

To Serve, Protect and Mind Their Manners

James Estrin/The New York Times

New York Police Officer Paul Daly gave directions in Times Square, where he’s in his 16th year on foot patrol. People often ask for help, he says, but aren’t always happy with it.

Published: July 29, 2007

If the New York Police Department had a model of a polite policeman, it might be Paul Daly, now in his 16th year on foot patrol in Times Square. “ ‘The Color Purple’? Eight blocks north,” he called out the other day, directing a warm smile toward a woman who appeared lost.

She glared back.

“People ask for help, then they argue,” Officer Daly said with a laugh. It was impossible to tell what had offended the woman. Officer Daly’s tone of voice? His demeanor? His uniform? Whatever it was, she went away unhappy.

For most people, direct encounters with the police are rare occurrences. The vast majority of New Yorkers will never be arrested, and the vast majority of officers will never draw their guns.

But when passing encounters with the police go wrong, they can leave a lasting impression and can do as much damage over time to police-public relations as a highly publicized case of police brutality.

A decade after adopting the motto “Courtesy, Professionalism, Respect” and holding precinct commanders accountable for civilian complaints, allegations of discourtesy by the police are on the rise: up 47 percent in five years, to 3,807 in 2006.

And so the department has started a new effort to make sure officers are, quite simply, more polite. It includes role playing — at one recent session, cadets had to deal with actors playing out an interracial dispute, and a transgender robbery victim who was becoming hysterical — and one new but simple tactic: officers are going to start introducing themselves to people on the street. . . .

Looking Back: Stanley Biber, M.D., surgeon

The surgical team gathers early one Saturday morning, not exactly hiding what they're doing, but not advertising it, either. The procedure is still in its experimental stages, and who knows how people will react.

Dr. Stanley Biber stands beside the operating table, white light shining down, the patient's chest rising and falling with each breath of anesthetic.

A few weeks before, Ann had come to him, sitting in the same chair as thousands of other patients and putting the question to him directly. She is a friend, a social worker who has brought him harelip and cleft palate cases from around Las Animas County. Ann is impressed with his work.

"Can you do my surgery?"
"Sure," Biber says. "There's not a surgery I can't do."
He has no humility. He's 46 years old and still a rising star.
"What kind of surgery is it?"
"I'm a transsexual," Ann says.
"A transsexual? What in hell's name is that?"

It's 1969. Most people don't know a transsexual from a transvestite, and Biber himself is a little sketchy. To him, this person sitting across his desk is a woman. Reddish hair. Medium build. Not bad-looking.

As it turns out, Ann is one of the first patients to receive hormone therapy from Dr. Harry Benjamin, the father of transsexual research. Ann has passed Benjamin's psychological criteria, lived as a woman for a year and is ready for the final step.

That afternoon, Biber calls New York and asks Benjamin's advice. He then contacts surgeons at Johns Hopkins Hospital in Baltimore, where the early sex-change operations have been performed, and arranges for the hospital to send hand-drawn diagrams that detail transforming a man's genitals into a woman's. The technique is basic--crude, even--but similar to the procedure for prostate cancer.

"Okay," he says. "We can do it."
So Biber stands in the operating room of Trinidad's Mt. San Rafael Hospital on this Saturday morning. His team is ready. His patient is prepped. Biber selects a scalpel and steadies his hand. . . .

Sunday, July 29, 2007

Dr. Nick Gorton discusses the DSM



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Nick Gorton was born in 1970. He graduated NCSSM in 1988, NCSU in 1991, and the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill School of Medicine in 1998. He completed his residency and chief residency in emergency medicine at Kings County Hospital in Brooklyn, NY in 2002, and became a Diplomate of the American College of Emergency Physicians in 2003.

He is an out gay transsexual man, and lives with his partner, Dan Gonsalves, in Davis, CA. In addition to his day job in the ER, he volunteers with Lyon-Martin Women's Health Services and has clinic there every Wednesday with a special focus on providing care for transgender people. He also provides pro bono medical consulting for a number of transgender-rights organizations - most notably the Sylvia Rivera Law Project.

http://www.Nickgorton.org

India: Their space in the cyberworld

Leisure A growing army of Tamil bloggers has ensured that regional language users have their say on the Web, writes Subha J Rao

Photos: K. Ananthan

A new world beckons Tamil blogs

Demure-looking Vidya, a transgender, has had a tough life. Despite being a postgraduate, she ended up begging on trains and public places to keep herself going. All this, before a blog changed her life. Balabharathi, an acquaintance who regularly blo gged in Tamil, helped her post her first message a year ago.

Those lines helped her break free of the shackles that bound her. And, in the process, aided hundreds of Tamil bloggers to open their minds to the plight of transgenders.

Talking to the world

Vidya knew English, but not enough to express herself. And, till Tamil blogs happened, she did not know how to tell the world stories about people like her.


The very vocal Balabharathi, who had studied till Class X, has an opinion on every issue but cannot write fluently in English. “But, I need to express myself. My Tamil is good. Should I not be given an opportunity to let the world know what I think?” This, coupled with the relative ease with which it is possible to type in Tamil, is driving a growing number of people, age no bar, to Tamil blogs. “That’s true,” agrees S. Muguntharaj, creator of eKalappai, one of the free softwares that makes typing in Tamil a breeze.

The opportunity to write in Tamil helps many people fulfil their desire to express themselves in their mother tongue. ‘Osai’ Chella, motivator and long-time blogger, is a regular in English blogs. A year ago, he started writing in Tamil ( www.osaichella.blogspot.com). “Since it is my mother tongue, the feelings are more genuine. And, this is a wonderful opportunity to write Tamil in day-to-day life. It vastly improves vocabulary and spellings. And, the responses are often moving.” Recently, he launched his audio blog www.osai.tamil.net). “Audio lends a personal touch. Moreover, a lot of NRI children face difficulty reading Tamil texts. And, with a speaker or amplifier, the whole family can hear the blog,” he remarks.

For Vidya, blogs provide the space she so badly craves for in the real world. “This is my platform. I have learnt a lot here. Like people write about politics and cinema, I write about the third gender,” she says. In her space, www.livingsmile.blogspot.com, she has conducted campaigns against the wrong portrayal of transgenders in films. And, thanks to the courage she derived from her writings, Vidya, who has undergone a sex change surgery, moved the Madurai bench of the Madras High Court to change her name and gender. . . .

Saturday, July 28, 2007

"Without Prejudice" Trans Pacific

India: Unusual baby draws crowds, worshipped as divine

From correspondents in India, 11:32 AM IST

Hundreds are flocking to a house in Orissa's Balasore district to glimpse and even worship a baby born with both male and female genitalia, being described as an incarnation of Hindu gods Shiva and Parvati.

The baby, now five-and-a-half months old, was born to Baijayanti Singh in Ayodhya Nagar Patana village in Balasore district, around 200 km from state capital Bhubaneswar.

'When the child was born (Feb 11) we thought it is a boy. But two days later we found that it had both male and female sex organs,' she said.

'We feel the baby is part of both Shiva and Parvati as it was born just four days before Maha Shivratri,' added Guru Gobinda Singh, the child's father.

Baijayanti had a normal delivery and the baby is healthy.

Describing the phenomenon, senior gynaecologist S.N. Sahu told IANS: 'It is called an intersex (congenital anomaly of the reproductive and sexual system) baby and such incidents may happen.'

Though such a condition does not lead to ill health or cause physical pain, it is a serious health issue that needs to be treated medically, he said.

'Surgically correcting the appearance of intersex genitals will not change the underlying medical needs,' Sahu said. . . .

IRS challenged in court about medical deduction for gender reassignment surgery

On Tuesday, July 24, in Boston, Rhiannon O'Donnabhain, a 63-year-old transsexual woman, testified in U.S. Tax Court, where she has challenged the Internal Revenue Service for not allowing $25,000 worth of out-of-pocket expenses for a medical deduction that she claimed on her 2001 federal income taxes.

O'Donnabhain in fact received a $5,000 refund check, but now the IRS wants it back, saying her gender reassignment surgery and other procedures she underwent, transitioning from male to female, are "cosmetic" and not "meaningful treatment" for her diagnosis with gender identity disorder, or GID. O'Donnabhain said that she could have paid back her IRS refund but decided to sue the government as a matter of principle.

Last week O'Donnabhain told the Associated Press, "This goes way beyond money," she said, adding, "If I were to give the money back, it would be saying it's okay for you to do this to me." But she said, "It's not okay for them to do this to me or anyone like me.

For its part, the IRS does not consider the various treatments O'Donnabhain received to be "medical care" insofar as her psychotherapy, breast enhancements, "feminizing" facial treatments, and gender reassignment surgery (GRS), among others - are all "cosmetic."

The IRS tax code states: "'medical care' does not include cosmetic surgery or other similar procedures, unless the surgery or procedure is necessary to ameliorate a deformity arising from, or directly related to, a congenital abnormality, a personal injury resulting from an accident or trauma, or disfiguring disease."

The U.S. federal tax code also defines the term "cosmetic surgery" to mean "any procedure which is directed at improving the patient's appearance and does not meaningfully promote the proper function of the body or prevent or treat illness or disease."

In other words, the government argues that GID is not an "illness" or "disease" for tax purposes, a lawyer for the IRS said to Judge Joseph Gale. And even if it were an illness, treating GID does not constitute "medical" care as it is not "meaningful treatment" in the promotion of proper body function.

For more than an hour, Jennifer Levi, an attorney with Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders (GLAD) questioned O'Donnabhain, with Mary Hamilton, of the IRS cross-examining her.

For years, O'Donnabhain testified, she experienced life in anguish, feeling as if she was a woman trapped in a man's body. As early as eight or nine years old, O'Donnabhain said, she had a sense of "feeling different." It was then, O'Donnabhain said, she began to caress women's undergarments to comfort her.

While she described her marriage as "good," O'Donnabhain said inner conflict created alienation from her true self, as well as emotional and interpersonal distance from her wife and family, interfering with familial intimacy and communication and marital sexual relations.

"I wanted my old body to go away," she said. "I wasn't supposed to be this way. I was supposed to be female. I just wanted the pain to go away."

Her suffering - "despair," "loneliness," and "shame" - became unbearable, she said, recounting one time while standing in the kitchen, holding on tight to a carving knife, contemplated cutting off her penis.

"I wanted to cut it off," her "male part," she said, "I was chicken. I couldn't see the light at the end of the tunnel." . . .

Fat chance

By Arnold Wayne Jones Staff Writer
Jul 26, 2007, 17:18

BIG GIRLS DON’T CRY — THEY DANCE


Rodney (Ash Christian) is trapped: Trapped in a narrow-minded small town; trapped as a gay boy in a religious family; trapped in a fat girl’s body. Which is not to say he’s transsexual — he just doesn’t fit in to society, the way any obese kid doesn’t. To Rodney, anyone different, whatever his gender, is a fat girl.

“Fat Girls” has the peculiar energy of a debut feature from a filmmaker who hasn’t developed tics and idiosyncrasies that become crutches. Its lack of polish often helps it seem more immediate, more heartfelt.

Films about the difficulty in fitting in certainly aren’t rare, nor are gay coming-of-age comedies, but “Fat Girls” benefits from its sweetness and singular, twangy Texas charm. As with “Hairspray,” it assumes that the pudgy kid deserves to be happy, to go to the prom with the local dreamboat and have a good time. It draws its strength not from a revenge fantasy against the cool kids, but from a live-and-let live approach that doesn’t consider them relevant at all. The title might sound cruel, but “Fat Girls” is about as gentle as movies get.

Grade: B+

— A.W.J.

“Fat Girls” plays as part of the Dallas Video Festival at the Kalita Humphreys Theater, 3636 Turtle Creek Blvd. Aug. 5 at 5:30 p.m.

Friday, July 27, 2007

The Crying Game

Marriage and the transsexual woman

Note that this article was written before the Gender Recognition Act received Royal assent on July 1, 2004. The new legislation makes it possible for transsexuals to change the sex/gender designation on their birth certificates, a designation that is required in order for transsexual marriages to be legally recognized as “heterosexual.”

The Gender Recognition Act has affected thousands of male-to-female transsexuals in the United Kingdom. In addition to legalising marriage to a man, the law has many other effects such as ensuring that they can claim women's pension rights and that they are not sent to a male prison in the event of being convicted of a crime.

It is reasonable to suggest that most women, including many transsexual women, hope to eventually find a loving husband and enjoy a long, happy and secure marriage.

Transsexuals Jocelyn and Adam with their marriage certificate
Jacelyn and Adam show their new certificate of marriage - one of many couples with a transsexual half finally able to legalise their status.

Statistics are limited, but it's generally thought that about 20-30% of transsexual women will marry a man at least once, e.g. one American study of 51 post-SRS women aged 20 to 58 found that 12 were married as women (21%) while another 23 were in relationships with men. Other studies show similar results:

Study Sample Size Married Percentage Married (%)
Ball, 1981 23 5 22
Dudle, 1989 18 4 (2 had already divorced and were married again) 28
WÃ¥linder & Thuwe, 1975 11 7 (2 had already divorced) 64
Turner, Edlich & Edgerton, 1978 47 18 had married within one year of SRS and 6 had adopted children. 38

Clearly these figures show that far fewer transsexual women marry men than genetic women (93% over their life time in Western Europe), but the studies can give no more than a rough indication of the actual situation. They are distorted by several factors:


A chart showing the age of legal change of status (usually after SRS) of 712 German transsexuals aged 18 to 79. The mean age is 34.
Source: Weitze C., M.D., Osburg S., M.D. (1997)]
  1. Follow-up studies are usually carried with in a few years of SRS and many transwomen may not marry this rapidly.

  2. The average western transsexual woman only has SRS at a median age of 30 years (a mean age of 32, raised by over 50's), which reduces the opportunities for transwoman wishing to marry as a woman. [Note that Asian transsexual women tend to be far younger at SRS, with a mean age well under 30.]

  3. Transsexual women face many more obstacles to obtaining a "legal" marriage.

  4. About a quarter of transsexual women (with a bias towards older age groups) consider themselves lesbian, and are thus unlikely to seek marriage with a member of the opposite sex.


Genetically XX women tend to have an index finger longer than their ring finger, XY transwomen a ring finger longer than their index finger (as above).

There is now absolutely no doubt that most transsexual women can satisfactorily and fully enter in to marriage (in all physical as well as social senses) with a man on exactly the same terms as any infertile but genetically "XX" woman. Indeed, with the help of modern medicine, many post-operative transsexual women pass so well both physically and socially that it is often their own choice as to whether to reveal their male background to a boyfriend or husband. As many men react badly to being told of their girlfriends or wife's transsexuality, young transwomen in particular often prefer to hide this and risk eventual discovery, claiming instead some other medical problem which prevents them from ever menstruating or having children. For example in the study referred to earlier one woman (now in her mid-30's) met her future husband soon after her SRS while working as a receptionist, they've now been happily married for seven years and her husband still doesn't know of her surgery - which the authors say is not unusual. Dr Stanley Biber has said of his 3,500 MTF women, "A lot of them get married and have families and don't want to remember their lives before."

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April Corbett & husband Arthur Corbett


Belinda Darlington

However, while many MTF transsexuals seek marriage and a normal life as a woman, the law conspires against them in many countries. In 1970 Lord Justice Ormrod issued his infamous judgment on the Corbett v. Corbett (otherwise Ashley) case, a ruling which has ever since prevented Male-to-Female transsexual women from marrying, both in the United Kingdom and by setting a common law precedent in many other countries as well, including the United States. . . .

Bathrooms between genders

By EMILY KIRN
Alligator Contributing Writer

Ursula Magdolan, 20, was born a boy, but she decided to start dressing like a female about four years ago.

Wearing a tightly laced corset and 2-inch heels, she sat with her legs crossed at a table downstairs in Gainesville's University Club, which attracts primarily gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people.

Today, Magdolan automatically uses the women's room, but it has not always been an easy decision.

Her eyebrows, drawn in a high arc above bright pink eye shadow, lowered as she recalled several instances when she was discriminated against just for trying to go to the bathroom.

Once when she was entering the female restroom in a nightclub, a man spit on her and told her she was going into the wrong stall.

She has also had a bottle thrown at her head, but she said she usually just receives offensive stares.

"They just don't understand," she said.

The issue of gender-neutral bathrooms has been gaining attention across the nation and is now growing in the South as well, said Bob Karp, who is on the board of directors for the Human Rights Council of North Central Florida.

According to the Minnesota Department of Human Rights' Web site, New Jersey, California, Illinois, Maine, Minnesota, New Mexico, Hawaii, Rhode Island and Washington provide legislative protection for gender identity and expression. More than 70 cities nationwide have also adopted this protection. . . .

Simon Says

Simon Aronoff just wants equality -- for everyone

Thursday, July 26, 2007

Fox Reality to debut UK's 'There's Something About Miriam' October 31

By Christopher Rocchio, 07/25/2007

One of the U.K.'s most controversial reality dating series is finally going to air in America.

There's Something About Miriam, a reality dating series that set-up six unsuspecting men on dates with a transsexual and first premiered on Britain's Sky One in February 2004, is scheduled to premiere Wednesday, October 31 on Fox Reality, the Hartford Courant television critic Roger Catlin reported Monday.

Although Fox Reality had previously announced Miriam's acquisition back in May, the all-reality digital cable network hadn't disclosed when it planned to debut the series. "I look forward to unleashing that on the American public," Fox Reality president David Lyle had teased to Daily Variety at the time.

There's Something About Miriam filmed in Ibiza in 2003. At the start of the show, the men were presented with a lineup of beautiful women and asked to pick the one that they found most attractive. All of them selected a South American beauty named Miriam, and in typical reality dating show fashion, competed to win her affections.

However unbeknownst to the men, Miriam wasn't a woman. Instead -- similar to Jaye Davidson's role in 1994's The Crying Game film -- she was a preoperative transsexual. . . .

The Sex Reassignment Surgery Tax Case That Seems To Never End

July 17th, 2007 by Autumn Sandeen

Rhiannon G. O’Donnabhain V. Commissioner Of Internal Revenue case is back in the news. The Associated Press is reporting:

[A] 57-year-old suburban Boston man underwent a sex-change operation. Then she wrote off the $25,000 in medical expenses on her taxes.

But the IRS disallowed the deduction - ruling the procedure was cosmetic, not a medical necessity - in a potentially precedent-setting dispute now before the U.S. Tax Court.

Rhiannon O’Donnabhain is suing the IRS in a case advocates for the transgendered are hoping will force the tax agency to treat sex-change operations the same as appendectomies, heart bypasses and other deductible medical procedures. The case is set to go to trial July 24.

“The IRS ruling is pure bias, since scientists agree that gender transition services are medically necessary and not cosmetic,” said Joel Ginsberg, executive director of the Gay and Lesbian Medical Association.

In 1996, O’Donnabhain began seeing a psychotherapist who eventually diagnosed her with gender-identity disorder. Five years later, her therapist recommended sex-change surgery, finding it was a medically necessary. A psychologist who examined O’Donnabhain concurred.

O’Donnabhain claimed the expenses on her 2001 tax return. The IRS denied the deduction in 2003.

Kenneth Vacovec, a tax attorney from Newton, said O’Donnabhain could have a strong case because of the psychological component of gender identity disorder.

“If you were going to a psychiatrist and you had a bipolar condition, and you were taking medication and getting treatment and it made you function better in society, how is that different from having a sex-change operation that allows you to function better and be more comfortable in society?” Vacovec said.

Back in December of 2004, GLAD issued a press release indicating Rhiannon O’Donnabhain won a significant ruling on sex reassignment surgery. IRS Appeals Officer/Commissioner Mark Everson determined that Ms. O’Donnabhain’s surgery was medically necessary and an integral part of a professionally prescribed course of treatment for her diagnosed condition, and she could deduct for the surgery as a necessary operation.

The traditional values folk went ballistic.

(More on the history of this lawsuit after the flip)

The Traditional Values Coalition wrote of that IRS Appeals Officer’s decision:

The homo/trans movement is currently guided by a belief that concepts such as male and female are simply cultural inventions that can be altered at will by the individual. In 1993, a transgender legal group issued the “International Gender Bill of Rights,” that declares: “It is fundamental that individuals have the right to define, and to redefine as their lives unfold, their own gender identity, without regard to chromosome sex, genitalia, assigned birth sex, or initial gender role.” This is a sure recipe for sexual confusion and life-long despair.

By giving tax deductions for unneeded “sex change” operations, the IRS is aiding in the homo-trans effort to undermine the biological realities of male and female. The simple fact is that no one can change sexes. A male who has his sex organs removed and takes hormones for breast enhancement is still genetically a male—not a woman. This is an unchangeable reality. A man can no more become a woman than he can become a Dodge Minivan. A person who thinks otherwise is delusional—and needs professional care.

An individual who suffers from Gender Dysphoria has a serious mental problem—and this cannot be fixed by hormone injections and the mutilation of a person’s body. He needs long-term, intensive therapy, not mutilation.

The IRS is collaborating with madness by giving tax deductions for unneeded “sex change” operations. The IRS policy should be reversed immediately.

American Daily, Townhall, and the Free Republic weighed in too.

The conservative Christian outcry apparently stirred some members of congress to get involved. The Washington Times published in a February 2005 article:

No fewer than two dozen congressmen are giving Internal Revenue Service Commissioner Mark Everson until the close of business Feb. 28 to explain why the IRS granted a tax deduction for a sex change operation.

“[A]s members of the United States House of Representatives, we view this as an outrage and believe it sets a precedent that both the IRS and the American taxpayer at large will not be comfortable with,” the congressmen wrote to the IRS chief.

The IRS Commissioner’s late 2004 decision was officially reversed in October of 2005, and the reversal was published in January of 2006.

Berkeley tax law attorney Donald H. Read, writing for the San Francisco Chronicle, wrote the following of that IRS reversal:

Under the Internal Revenue Code, medical expenses are deductible if incurred for the “diagnosis, cure, mitigation, treatment or prevention of disease, or for the purpose of affecting any structure or function of the body.” Under the Treasury Department’s own regulations, they must be incurred “primarily for the prevention or alleviation of a physical or mental defect or illness.” However, the code prohibits deducting the costs of cosmetic surgery, which it defines as “any procedure which is directed at improving the patient’s appearance and does not meaningfully promote the proper function of the body or prevent or treat illness or disease.”

Despite reviewing the patient’s long and comprehensive psychological and medical process of addressing his gender identity disorder and deciding on surgery, the IRS concluded that there “is nothing to substantiate that these expenses were incurred to promote the proper function of the taxpayer’s body and only incidentally affect the taxpayer’s appearance.”

The IRS treated gender reassignment surgery as similar to voluntary cosmetic surgery, the purpose of which is to affect appearance rather than to change the function of part of the body. Left unexplained is how removal of the testicles and penis and their replacement with a vagina is more appearance — than function — related.

Almost gratuitously, the IRS went on to question whether this surgery really is a treatment for an illness or disease. For this proposition it cites an article, not from the New England Journal of Medicine, Lancet, or any similarly respected medical publication, but rather from a magazine called First Things.

First Things is published by the Institute on Religion and Public Life, which describes itself as “an interreligious, nonpartisan research and education institute whose purpose is to advance a religiously informed public philosophy for the ordering of society.”

The First Things article was written by John Hopkins’ Psychiatrist-in-Chief Paul McHugh. Per Lynn Conway:

Paul McHugh is an influential conservative Catholic ideologue who for some odd reason has been on a lifelong rampage to “stop sex changes.” This transphobic psychiatrist (then advisor to the Vatican on sexual matters) convinced the Vatican in 2000 to declare that transsexualism “doesn’t exist” and is a mental pathology instead. McHugh is now positioned to similarly influence the Executive Branch, as a member of the President’s Council for Bioethics.

RightWeb describes the First Things publisher this way:

The Institute on Religion and Public Life (IRPL), publisher of the journal First Things, describes itself as an “interreligious, nonpartisan research and education institute whose purpose is to advance a religiously informed public policy for the ordering of society.” Both the institute and its journal function, in large part, as the institutional vehicles for the conservative religious philosophy of founder Richard John Neuhaus, a Catholic priest and neocon—or “theocon”—stalwart.

First Things, a monthly publication, generally promotes the tenets of the Christian Right, often staking out positions to the right of the George W. Bush administration. First Things editor Joseph Bottum wrote in early 2007: “Social conservatism is in little better shape now than it was when Bush was first elected. In many ways, it is in worse shape” (First Things, March 2007).

Again, the First Things article by Paul McHugh is what the IRS used to make its decision on whether or not sex reassignment surgery should be tax deductible, not what most experts on Gender Identity Disorder (GID) believe. Which, by the way, is:

Sex Reassignment is Effective and Medically Indicated in Severe GID. In persons diagnosed with transsexualism or profound GID, sex reassignment surgery, along with hormone therapy and real-life experience, is a treatment that has proven to be effective. Such a therapeutic regimen, when prescribed or recommended by qualified practitioners, is medically indicated and medically necessary. Sex reassignment is not “experimental,” “investigational,” “elective,” “cosmetic,” or optional in any meaningful sense. It constitutes very effective and appropriate treatment for transsexualism or profound GID. . . .

Experts at tax trial explain gender identity disorder

Bay Windows
Thursday Jul 26, 2007

Rhiannon O’Donnabhain speaks to a reporter in her lawyer’s office Boston, Thursday, July 12, 2007.
Rhiannon O’Donnabhain speaks to a reporter in her lawyer’s office Boston, Thursday, July 12, 2007. (Source:AP/Josh Reynolds)

Attorneys for the Internal Revenue Service (IRS) spent the second day of a trial in which a transwoman is suing the federal agency for the right to deduct her medical expenses related to treatment for Gender Identity Disorder (GID) trying to make the case that sex-reassignment surgery is a cosmetic procedure rather than a medical necessity. IRS senior attorney John Mikalchus grilled Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders’ (GLAD) expert witness, psychiatrist Dr. George Brown, for more than four hours about the medical necessity of sex-reassignment surgery and other treatments for GID, asking him on multiple occasions to concede that the procedures are cosmetic. Brown, a psychology professor at East Tennessee State University and a board member of the World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH), which issues the internationally recognized standards of care for GID treatment, refused to do so, but Mikalchus tried to hammer home that point himself. Mikalchus also suggested that surgery, hormones and other treatments for GID do not cure patients’ cross-gender identification but merely reinforce it, and he said that the treatments for GID are an anomaly in the mental health profession.

"You wouldn’t recommend liposuction for someone who’s anorexic, would you?" Mikalchus asked Brown.

In response, Brown countered that sex-reassignment surgery does cure cross-gender identification. "They experience themselves as female. The body is aligned female. The symptoms no longer exist," said Brown.

Rhiannon O’Donnabhain, a transwoman from the South Shore, filed suit against the IRS after the agency told her she could not claim a deduction on her federal income tax for the medical costs associated with her treatment for GID, including her 2001 sex-reassignment surgery. O’Donnabhain’s legal team, consisting of GLAD attorneys Karen Loewy, Ben Klein and Jennifer Levi, argued that GID is a disorder recognized by the medical community and that it is included in the Diagnostic Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), one of the standard handbooks used by mental health practitioners. They brought in witnesses to testify that the treatment she sought, including her surgery, were well within the norms of treatment for GID and that the surgery was medically necessary. The case, O’Donnabhain v. Commissioner of Internal Revenue, is being argued in U.S. Tax Court in Boston before Judge Joseph H. Gale The trial began July 24.

The first day of the trial, O’Donnabhain took the stand and gave several hours of testimony, at times bursting into tears as she recounted her struggles with GID and her profound sense of being a woman trapped in the body of a man. As a child growing up in a devout Irish Catholic family in Rockland she had difficulty understanding and relating to her male peers, and she had a profound sense of discomfort in her own body. Starting at age 10 she began secretly trying on women’s clothes, but she never discussed her struggles with gender with any of her family or friends. By age 26 she was married, and during their 22-year marriage, she and her wife had three children. But her strong feelings of being trapped in the wrong body, and her decision to keep quiet about those feelings, were a strain on the marriage, and she said she had great difficulty being physically intimate with her wife. . . .

Interview with GLAD Attorney on IRS Trans Medical Deduction Denial Case

Monday, July 23, 2007

GLAD Attorney Jennifer LeviGLAD goes to trial in U.S. Tax Court tomorrow (July 24) on behalf of Rhiannon O'Donnabhain, who is challenging the IRS' decision to deny her a tax deduction for her sex reassignment surgery. (More background on this story here).

Senior Staff Attorney Jennifer Levi (left), a member of the GLAD team representing Rhiannon, talked with us about the importance of the case.

What is this case about?

Jennifer Levi (JL): In this case, the IRS denied a tax deduction for a transsexual woman who deducted medical expenses relating to her transition.

Why did the IRS deny her deduction?

JL: The position that the IRS has taken is that the surgeries that Rhiannon had were “cosmetic.” And what that means is that they’re insignificant--they’re just about trying to look better. And these weren’t about “looking better.” They were about transition. They were about being able to, not just transform the way she looked, but the way she felt, and the way that she was able to present her gender in the world. To trivialize this kind of surgical procedure, and to compare it to something like a nose job, is demeaning. And really centrally misses the basic point of transgender identity.

So you think that the IRS’s decision shows an underlying bias against trans people?

JL: Absolutely. We think it shows bias at worst, and a gross misunderstanding at best.

Why should Rhiannon have been able to deduct the surgery as a medical expense?

JL: The Internal Revenue Code allows deductions for expenses relating to medical care. The entire reason Rhiannon sought psychotherapy--and eventually hormones and surgery for the feelings that she had about being female--was medical. She was diagnosed with Gender Identity Disorder (GID), as recognized in the DSM IV, in the World Health Organization’s ICD-10, and in every major textbook and medical dictionary that addresses issues relating to mental health.

There’s just no real question that for some people whose gender identity doesn’t match their sex, that experience causes very serious anxiety, distress, sadness, and depression. And people should have access to medical care.

There’s an established course of treatment Rhiannon followed that clearly meets the statutory definition for medical care. All we have to show in this case is that the procedures she underwent were medical in nature. To suggest that they’re not is really to call into question the legitimacy of that experience of dysphoria.

Why is this case important?

JL: It’s important because it addresses pervasive misunderstandings, pervasive bias, pervasive prejudice that transgender people face. There is a lot of misinformation that underlies the discrimination that transgender people face in many areas of their lives.

What we’ve found in the context of this case is that most people really do see through what the IRS has said. People understand that if you wake up every day and you look in the mirror and the person that you see is not the person you feel like you are, that’s an uncomfortable experience at best, and disorienting and disabling at worst. Fair-minded people understand that individuals should be able to take steps to change that experience and integrate their lives more fully in order to be who they are--in order to wake up every day and see the person in the mirror that they feel themselves to be. And that when somebody does that, they shouldn’t be fired from their jobs, they shouldn’t be beaten up on the streets, they shouldn’t be denied equal treatment that other Americans receive under something as basic as the tax code.

Rhiannon’s experience is one piece of the experience of transgender people. Not everybody has the same interest in transitioning medically. Not everyone can afford to, and not everyone would want to. But this is an important case for the entire community. And that’s because what’s really at the heart of this case is a central misunderstanding about the importance of being able to express one’s gender identity. Everybody should be able to do that.

Wednesday, July 25, 2007

Lauren Harries at Cardiff Barrage

Lauren (James) Harries as a boy and then. . .

Lauren Harries: The boy in the made-up world

You remember James Harries. He was the strange boy who wore bow ties and pretended to be an antiques dealer. Now 23, after a sex change, 'Lauren' talks about her plans for a chat show


By Julia Stuart

Published: 13 April 2001

At the age of 12, James Harries was hailed as an antiques expert. He claimed to have a rare talent for sniffing out pieces of rare china among jumble sale tat.

At the age of 12, James Harries was hailed as an antiques expert. He claimed to have a rare talent for sniffing out pieces of rare china among jumble sale tat. With his Edwardian-style miniature velvet suits, bow ties and shock of blond curls, he was the Little Lord Fauntleroy who perched on Wogan's settee, and advised the nation how to spot a bargain. Television clips showed him sitting in the back of a Rolls-Royce conducting business in his queer, high voice on a mobile phone, his legs too short to reach the floor. If anyone was going to make it in life, surely it would be the curious genius James Harries.

Now 23, the taste for period clothes remains, but today, rather than a suit, James is dressed in an Edwardian-style white embroidered nightie. For the one-time child entrepreneur is lying on a hospital bed after undergoing a sex-change operation. It's no longer James, it's Lauren.

She is quick to point out that "angelic" isn't her only look. "I've got a little slinky black number in there, you know, with pants to go with it," she says, pointing to the wardrobe with a pink polished finger nail. "I can wear pink, kitten heels with it and look very sexy. If I'd worn it I would have looked like a very slim, attractive model. The thing is, you can look angelic and you can look sexy as well."

Lauren's voice has deepened since her days as a child star, though she still can't pronounce her Rs. While her voice is now unremarkable, her appearance is certainly still striking. Tall and skinny, the once blond, frizzy curls have turned mouse. She dyes them blonde, and her hair hangs in butter-coloured clumps around her face. "It's ringlets now," she says, shaking her head. "I love my hair."

Above her top lip is a slight hint of stubble. One day, when she can afford it, she intends to have surgery on her Adam's apple, and maybe even breast implants if the hormones she is taking don't noticeably increase the size of her chest.

To Lauren, the surgery represents an end to the name-calling and the innuendos, and hopefully the start of being accepted by society. At school she was called a "wimp" and a "queer boy". As a teenager she was rejected by the gay scene as too effeminate, and women didn't seem to want to know.

"I didn't like the gay scene, and I wasn't gay anyway. I'm still a virgin and I haven't even kissed a man," says Lauren, who lives in Cardiff with her parents and two brothers. "I went to the clubs but I was looked upon as a little girl, not a man at all.

"Women assumed I was gay. When you're a man and you're scatty, flaky, and forget things and drop things, you look like Mr Bean. They didn't take me seriously. . . .

Do Lauren Harries a makeover!

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‘I was a boy that turned into a butterfly’

July 25 2007

by Laura Wright, South Wales Echo


CELEBRITY transsexual Lauren Harries is unveiling an extra layer in an in-depth documentary to be screened next week.

The eccentric 29-year-old from Cardiff will bare all in a frank and open insight into her life in the hope that it will help her to be better understood.

Lauren found fame when she was just 10 years old as James Harries, the curly-haired, bow-tied child antiques “expert”.

The revealing documentary Where Are They Now? was filmed in one busy day by North Wales company Chwarel TV.

It will track the many changes that Lauren has experienced in the last two decades, from finding fame with Terry Wogan to having a sex-change operation six years ago. Lauren, of Rumney, Cardiff, said: “I’m completely honest. I go as personal as it takes. I’m always straight from the hip, if I’m asked a question, I’ll answer it.

“Nobody knows me properly, nobody understands what I have been through. This is my opportunity to show people me as a woman and as a person. It’s something people need to see.

“I hope they’ll learn I was a boy that turned into a butterfly.”

Lauren is now writing her life story and hopes the documentary will reach out to others. She said: “In the television industry they always want someone who’s safe and easy. When you’re a transsexual they don’t know what to do with you. . . .

U.S. woman seeks tax deduction for sex change

By Scott MaloneTue Jul 24, 5:11 PM ET

A woman seeking a tax write-off for her sex-change operation told the opening session of a potentially precedent-setting trial on Tuesday that the procedure was not just cosmetic but had made her whole.

Rhiannon O'Donnabhain is challenging a decision by U.S. tax authorities not to allow the $25,000 cost of her 2001 sex-change and breast augmentation surgeries as a tax deduction. The Internal Revenue Service calls the procedures elective and cosmetic, and ineligible for a tax break.

If the U.S. Tax Court in Boston overturns the IRS's decision, it could have big implications for transsexuals and other transgender people by setting a precedent for those who want to write off the high cost of sex-change operations.

"If I didn't have the surgery, I would have been on drugs or an alcoholic, or I would kill myself. There was no other way," O'Donnabhain, 63, told the court.

"I needed it to be complete ... females don't have male genitals and I was a female. The only way for me to be the real person I was in my mind was to have the surgery," she said.

In opening arguments for the IRS, Associate Area Counsel Maureen O'Brien said the gender-change surgery was not medically necessary.

"The surgery was the petitioner's choice, so it was a personal expense," O'Brien said. "The petitioner's breast augmentation as a result of breast implants was clearly cosmetic, the petitioner already had breast development as a result of hormone therapy."

Walter Meyer, a professor of psychiatry at the University of Texas Medical Branch and an expert in the field of gender identity disorder, told Reuters that in 2006 such disorders affected about one in 10,000 people. . . .